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“My own miracle”

By Michael Townsend, Habitat for Humanity of the Chesapeake homeowner

As we enter the Advent season and prepare for the miracle of Christmas, I would like to share the story of my own miracle. Many people take their homes for granted, but, for me, it truly represents a miraculous expression of God’s love and grace.

At the age of 7, I was diagnosed with Duchenne Muscular Dystrophy, a degenerative neuromuscular disorder. My family was told that I would probably not live beyond my teenage years. Despite the grim prognosis, I was determined to beat the odds.

By the time I graduated from high school, I was fully dependent on a power wheelchair. I enrolled in a local college and loved the feeling of independence. I continued living at home with my parents, who were my primary caregivers. During this time, my neuromuscular disease progressed, and I lost the use of my arms, as well as the ability to breathe independently.

Eventually, the burden of my disease became too much, and I was unable to remain at home. I discovered that there are few options for people with my level of disability; I could either learn to manage my care or face life in a nursing home. At the age of 37, I moved in to my own apartment with the assistance of professional caregivers.

It was a challenge to manage independent living, but I also found that I could do more than I ever dreamed possible. I obtained my first job as a writer, became a lobbyist with a nonprofit that seeks effective treatments for muscular dystrophy and became active in my Catholic parish. I was also joined by Kathy, a service monkey from Helping Hands Monkey Helpers for the Disabled.

Although my single-bedroom apartment met my most basic requirements, I quickly outgrew the small living space. I was able to navigate the rooms only after all the internal doors were removed. Even then, the bathroom remained inaccessible. There was little space for my medical equipment and supplies, and my caregivers often slept on an air mattress on my living room floor. Rent was expensive, and my resources are limited.

After several years of struggling with this arrangement, I began to dream of owning a home that I could adapt to meet my complex needs. As I began to research the possibility, I learned that people with significant disabilities have unique challenges in terms of becoming homeowners. There are very few accessible homes available in the greater Baltimore area. I applied to Habitat for Humanity of the Chesapeake and was very excited when I was invited to become a partner family. I spent the following year fulfilling Habitat’s educational and sweat equity requirements.

Thanks to Habitat, just over a month ago I officially became a homeowner. I have spent the past several weeks getting settled into my new home and neighborhood. My home is fully accessible and even has a generator that will sustain my ventilator and other medical equipment in the event of a power outage. I am now able to do small things that most people take for granted. For example, an electronic door opener allows me to independently enter or exit my home — something that I have not been able to physically accomplish in more than three decades.

My home is a blessing. It allows me to continue defying the odds against Duchenne Muscular Dystrophy. Being able to actively engage in life despite the overwhelming challenges of chronic illness and disability is a miracle. In this season of miracles, my home is certainly a reason to celebrate!

Comments

Anne Rouse wrote:

Michael's recent post is a wonderful expression of his life and the blessings he has found in his Habitat home. As it happens, he has also given readers an inkling, albeit unconscious, of why he has been such a blessing to all of us at Habitat for Humanity of the Chesapeake. Between the lines of his story, it is easy to detect the courage, determination, and will to life that have inspired all of us. We have also learned much about grace, patience, and genuine gratitude from Michael during his journey to homeownership. We are deeply grateful, in this season of Light, to have been part of Michael's blessing. Thank you Michael and thank you Habitat for Humanity International for this model of grace in action.

Karen Quanstrom wrote:

What a wonderful story! As the Executive Director of a Habitat affiliate in Texas I continue to wonder at what this mission can accomplish and the service we can render to our fellow others. "Need" is a very complex word!

Bridgette Govang wrote:

I am so impressed by this organization. After years of trying to volunteer locally, I was able to join a build in India. It was an incredible, rewarding experience. I urge anyone who is remotely interested, to volunteer with Habitat.
- Bridgette Govang

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